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Smile like there is no tomorrow and have fun like a kid in a candy store???.

Posted by Steve Dorsey on April 11, 2014 at 11:25 AM Comments comments (0)

Smile like there is no tomorrow and have fun like a kid in a candy store….




Over the years I have come to learn a really valuable secret to staying young at heart and that is to just just young at heart.


I have friends who are so serious in life they have no clue as to how to have fun anymore and worse they tell me that I need to take life more serious like them. How many people do you know say this or better yet are you one of them that feel life as an adult is not all fun and games?


Does it bother you to see other adults acting like little kids?


Do you have friends who are middle age and acting like teenagers?


Does it bother you that some men and women get to a certain age in life and all of a sudden they start acting like teeneagers again and are perhaps dating others way younger than them?


Does age really matter when you are single and dating someone younger if not much younger then you,  keeping in mind I mean the legal age of dating…


As a baby boomer who just turned 50 I have always been young at heart and happy as I can be but for a brief time I was very unhappy and stuck in life. I had friends and family telling me I need to grow up and act my age or I must be going through a stage in life which they went as far as giving it a title which I think they call it  “Middle Age Crisis” !


Now don’t get me wrong acting like a “Kid” and having fun is way different than acting like a “Damn Fool”....


I find way more peace in my life, I have far less worries and stress in my life since I stopped worrying about what other people thought of me and how I act and especially who I date and how old they are, after all If I want to date someone younger than me that is my right and their right as well. I have my standards and I know right from wrong so I date women who are of age and are responsible for their lives.


I use to be like the masses until I realized the masses were very unhappy with their lives and worried too much about what other people did with their lives. That to me is the other definition of insanity….


So lets recap here…


Go out and have fun and never worry about what others may say or think as long as your fun does not hurt yourself or others then so be it.


If you are middle age and want to do all the things in life you feel you want to do then so be it.


People will always judge others no matter how great they are so while they are busy talking about you or judging you just make sure you give them plenty to work with and have fun watching them make asses of themselves.


Never judge a book by its cover or you will never see the great words of wisdom it holds inside.


Love everyone and judge no one…


When in doubt do it twice just in case.


No one else can make you happy and it is not their job to try either, you might find it odd that they rather do all they can to make you feel guilty about your happiness and forget they are in charge of their own happiness.


Too many times we want to be like others and we fail to see that others want to be like us.


Those who walk around with a frown or pissed off look are usually seeking attention so just smile at them and give them the positive attention they are in need of...



Always keep in mind that if No One has told you they Love You today then let me be the first!


I Love each and Everyone of you!


Steve Dorsey


(Stand With Steve)


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Unload Your Fears (Walk more in Faith and less in Fear...)

Posted by Steve Dorsey on April 6, 2014 at 10:10 AM Comments comments (0)

 


Sundays have aways been a day to relax and celebrate your life with your creator, family and friends....

Let Go Let God!

Your fears are meant to protect you from getting hurt not hold you back from being successful or happy in life.

Are your fears operating along these lines or do you feel they are holding you back in life?

Take a momnent and look back on your life and see what your fears have done for you and how they have helped you or hindered you from going forward in life. A lot of time your fears are created from someone else's fears in life and you just in a way followed along with it not realizing  the only way to know for sure is to examine them for yourself.

Take one of your small fears and face it head on and see what happens, just make sure it is not a fear that can cause you physical harm unless it is a physical challenge you are ready to accept for yourself and take full responsabilty for all out comes.

Adriline junkies face their fears all the time, at the same time they are taking caculated risk that is meant to make it as safe as possible to over come the challenge. Waking up everyday going outside is a big risk in itself depending on who you are and where you live!

Taking action and facing what you fear is how life is meant to be lived, for God protects us all equally.

Psalm 23:4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me..

You don't have to be a religious person to get this for it applies to all of us equally when you think about it.

Another great technique is to look at what you fear as being fun and your mind will register it as something you will enjoy doing and so you will find it easier to do. The majority of our fears have not even been confronted by for the most part they just exist in our minds as the unknown so untill you confont it for sure and do it more than once will it ever be known for sure if you fear it or not...

Walk more in Faith and less in Fear...




Change the Person in The Mirror and Change The WORLD!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on April 2, 2014 at 11:15 AM Comments comments (1)

My cause comes with no paycheck, car bonus, or rank advancement!


Yet my cause Serves all of MANKIND...

Will you join my cause under these conditions?


~ Stand With Steve


Take action Then inspire

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 31, 2014 at 10:10 AM Comments comments (1)

Over the weekend I celebrated my 50th Birthday!

This was a great mile stone Birthday for me for the simple fact out of all of my Mothers six sons with me being the youngest I was the only one to ever be able to live long enough to see it!

I have always felt like I have been living on borrowed time and I often wondered why I was still alive when all the others have passed on way to early.....

I lived a wild life that was full of booze, drugs and women...

I never cared about life that much and I never planned on any type of retirement either, I just figured I would party until the day I die!

Then one day I realized I was the last one left and God had a plan for me even though I didn't have one. On that day I got sober and never had another  drink or drug again, that day was Aug 11, 2002 and that was the day I took massive action and changed everything about my life from inside out!

I had to purge out all past experiences and get them out in the open once in for all and face all of my demons and fears head on!

I would have to address all of my strengths in order to do this.

Most important I had to take massive action and be willing to do it!

I am here today by the Grace of God and God alone!


This is my 3 "G" Network!

My new life and vision ivolves inspireing others to live the best lives they can!

By leading by example...

Live for the Future not the Past...

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 23, 2014 at 10:50 AM Comments comments (0)

For the longest time I have heard so many people say we must live in the present..........

And I agree with them 100% but I also find it hard to agree with them when your present state or situation is not that great!

Hi My name is Steve Dorsey and I am the future,

What do I mean by this? Simply I have tried many things in my lifetime and I have many more to try, I try them because I want to live a more productive and happy life. For the most part I am as happy as a person can be, I always have a smile on my face and I am always willing to help others who are in need.

I have always been like this and I really enjoy it.

Over the years I have read my fair share of self help books and I have aquaried a lot of great and useful information but yet I was still unhappy! 

WHY?

Everyone lead me to believe I had to live in the present and not the future but my present situation was not that great so I was unhappy. I was also lead to believe that if I dreamed big my life would eventually be great and yet my present situation was not that great so I stayed stuck! How many of you know what this stuck feeling is like? 

Are you tired of being stuck in life? 

Ok if you live in the past you surly can't live in the present right? So we know for sure the past is only good for reminders of great things and happy times and lesson for less then great experience and can be used as a road map to make better chocies in our lives...

It has been my experience that if I try to envision a future way bigger then anything my present state can handle I will continue to stay stuck and not belive I can attain such great things for mylife, so I must take baby steps and walk into the future each and everday while still living in the present and learning from my past.

What I mean by walking into the future is simply to envision something you want or desire that is attaianble and then add to it just a little bit more or maybe expand on it a little bit more each time. So if you want a mansion and you are living with your parents, friends, realitives or perhaps you are homeless you might want to first establish your own apartment or home and then work your way up to it, by then you will have aquaried all the other necessary items that will help fill your mansion so it will feel more like home to you when you get there. 

The reason I say I am the future is for the simply fact I have one today, I see myself doing big things in the near future even though my present state lacks certain things I need to be great over time.

I know it will be because each day I add just a little bit more to my life inorder to get to where I want to go.

The best way to go from A to Z is one letter at a time, that way it is complete and nothing is missing...


The 5-Step Path to a Life of Love

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 11, 2014 at 11:10 AM Comments comments (0)

 




From: Lesson 21: Love Doesn't Hurt

By Deepak Chopra

 

 

Read more: http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Deepak-Chopra-The-5-Step-Path-to-a-Life-of-Love#ixzz2vfQvJBtv

 

Deepak Chopra, co-founder of the Chopra Foundation and co-author of the new book War of the Worldviews: Science vs. Spirituality, reveals how to create a life founded on the world's most generous and joyful emotion.

 

Love has arrived at a strange crossroads. It seems very odd to say, "I want to be more loving. Is there a scientist who can help with that?" But in modern life, our notion of love has shifted. More and more we are told—in magazines, learned journals and media reports—that love can be broken down into medical explanations, that it is produced by reactions in the brain, both chemical and electrical. We may wish that love is divine, ideal and life-transforming, the news says, but to be realistic, we should throw out our old, unscientific notions and learn more about what the brain is doing to us.

 

I strongly oppose such a view of love—in fact, it frightens me. On the spiritual side, there's a completely different and higher view of love, which goes something like this: Love is part of creation, woven into the very fabric of the universe. We love one another because we have tapped into nature at a deeper level. Yes, the brain is responsible for giving love its physical expression, yet ultimately, love comes from the soul.

 

A catchy phrase from an old pop song said, "Love the one you're with." Although you can journey outside yourself, the person to give your love to (and who, in return, must return that love), in truth, the one you are with every minute of the day, is yourself. The more rewarding way to find it is to go inward to the very source of love. If you do not do this, your love will depend on your mood swings, on how others see you and on the lovable and unlovable traits you see in yourself and others.

 

As soon as we measure people by what is lovable and unlovable, trouble arises. The unlovable person is labeled odd, an outsider, bad or an enemy. We create unhappiness instead. We practice nonlove, that voice inside that whispers in our ears, "They are different from us." Or, "Fight for what you want and don't quit until you win." Or, "When bad things happen to other people, it's their own fault."

 

We need to restore love as the key to happiness—a difficult task. That's why we need a spiritual path, so that we can walk away from nonlove and its confusions. Here are five basic steps that can lead you to a new life where everyone, most especially yourself, is worthy of loving and being loved.

 

Step 1: Believe in Love

When you say, "I love my work," or "I love my partner," you are expressing belief and showing faith in something outside yourself. As good as that is, even better is to have faith in love as part of yourself. When anyone asks me, "How do I find the right one?" I always give the same advice: To find the right one, become the right one. Belief in love is a spiritual kind of belief. It holds that love exists as a universal quality, outside ourselves, that can never be defeated, only covered over. Thus love and nonlove are not equals. Love is permanent; nonlove is temporary.

 

Step 2: Don't Limit Love to a Few People and Deny It to Others

It's very common to say: "I love my own children, and I love my neighbor's children. But when it comes to my kids, I love them more." That's perfectly understandable. But there's a spiritual teaching, going back thousands of years, which goes "The world is my family." If love is universal, no one can be left out. To leave others out of your love is the same as inviting them to leave you out too.

 

Step 3: Make the Search for Love an Inward Search

Often we feel loved and insecure at the same time. The one we love is somebody we invest in emotionally, and emotions, by definition, are changeable. The one you love may turn indifferent or worse. The problem here is a kind of illusion. When you take someone into your heart, it's like filling a hole inside. If that person should spurn and reject you, suddenly the hole reappears as a terrible ache. Yet the hole was always there, and only you can fill it permanently. Ultimately, the inward journey is about finding your own fullness, something that no one else can take away.

 

Step 4: Seek Other People Who Value Love As Much As You Do

There's an old tradition: If you want to be wise, be in the company of wise people. I'd say the same is true about love. If you want to know about any human experience, seek out those who have walked the path of that experience. In our society, we are embarrassed to talk personally about truth, compassion, faith and love. This inhibition is part of our insecurity. Think of spirit as a community; it's not a talent you develop like a teenager learning to play the guitar. Perhaps community is too big a word, however. Perhaps you can start by finding one person who is wise in the ways of love, who knows what it means to live at a deeper level. That's a wonderful step in the right direction.

 

Step 5: Believe in Love As a Powerful Force

The first four steps depend on this one, believing that love has its own power. This is a power to transform. It's a power that cuts through doubt, suspicion, distrust and even hatred. Unless love has its own power, there are too many reasons to act from nonlove. We see all around us people who madly pursue pleasure or money or status because they don't trust in love. Without such trust that love can make a difference, of course you will pursue surrogates. Pleasure, money and status are compensations when love is absent or too weak to transform your life. No one has to give up on such surrogates, but it makes a huge difference to know that they are nonlove. The power of love is that it dissolves nonlove. That's the kind of power you find on the spiritual path.

 

None of the steps is automatic. Each takes work and practice. But now, more than ever, it's all important to reinvent the spiritual side of love. The steps may not be easy, but they are not impossible either. You only need to follow them with all your heart.

 

 

 

Read more: http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Deepak-Chopra-The-5-Step-Path-to-a-Life-of-Love#ixzz2vfQXgkRW

Desire / Needs

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 7, 2014 at 8:55 AM Comments comments (0)

When a person lacks desire for life they tend to want to isolate themselves from life....

At least that was my case and my experience.

I was taught to look at the driving force behind my behavior and once I took a look at that I realized I needed to take massive action and make some necessary adjustments. 

You see I got caught up into a story that was meant to be a way out for me but I failed to realize it and I just stayed stuck on the negative side of the story. There was actually two sides of the story and the other side was never told, With every down fall there is a upside just like the stock market will crash it all also rise in due time.

I lost all desire and stopped meeting my needs because of all the bad information I was taking in at the time. I can easily blame society and so many other things, the fact remains it was all my doing and so there is no need to do that. 

I felt all alone, I had no desire & needs and all I wanted to do was die.....

Have you ever felt like that or am I the only one? :)

If you have ever felt like that then you might think that you were the only one in the world that felt that way right? 

Well I am here to tell you YOU ARE NOT ALONE! 

There are so many people in the world that actually go through the same stuff as "WE" do and there is a way out and I say "WE" because I still have bad days and have to use daily tools and stratgies to manage my life.

In Alcoholics Annymous (AA) you are taught to use the 12 Steps as Tools for Life Management meaning when you are going through something you use what you were taught to get you through it and keep in mind you are not the only one who is going through something in life. 

It wasn't until I stopped going to so many AA meetings and I was hanging out with "regular" people that I realized everyone has problems and not everyone was drinking over thir problems. 

I guess you can say I sat in so many AA meetings telling and listening to  "WAR" stories that I got comfortable and addicted to these types of stories....

That was my desire back then and it met my needs.

I have since created new desires and have new needs, therefore I have a New Story! 

If you are stuck and need help there are so many resourses out there that are willing to help you and I am here to help at the same time. We are in it together so there is no reason for you to feel all alone and stuck! 

If you are in need of help you are always welcome to call upon me and I will do everything I can! 

~ Stand With Steve 


The 7 Elements of a Story

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 6, 2014 at 10:00 AM Comments comments (0)

Yesterday I asked my facebook friends if they knew what the 7 elements of a story where and they came up with some great answers but not the ones I was in search of. Tony Robbins teaches this at Date With Destiny and when you think about it, it makes a lot of since to the way our stories are laid out in our own lives, especially me! 

As you know I was addicted to my story which was not a positive thing in my case. I was taught how to get unstuck from a negative story and create a a more empowering story. One that would serve me much better in life. You take these elements and create a empowering story for the way you see and want your life to be and it will be. 


  1. Desire/Needs
  2. Problem
  3. Opponents
  4. Plans
  5. Battle
  6. Self-Revelation
  7. Equilibrium 

If you would like to learn more please let me know and I can go further into the lesson of how we did it at Date With Destiny! 

Leave your feedback below or feel free to join our members section and we can create it as a Topic for dicussion and cover it mre that way too! 

Thanks for taking the time to read these Blogs you are truly awesome and amazing supporters! 

Stand With Steve 


Opportunity is in Your Hands!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 4, 2014 at 11:00 AM Comments comments (0)

Either You See it or YOU don't...

If You could own a Toilet Paper Company would You see the value in it or Would you need to have Passion for Toilet paper or pass it up? 

Everyday people have the same opportunities as the Rich & Famous!

They just don't see it like the rich and famous do....

Take your passion and have fun doing it as a hobby or make it a living if you can but don't sit on the sidelines claiming you have to have passion for everything in life in order to turn it into a profitable business venture! 

There are a lot of products we all use that someone else makes and sales and I am sure they are not 100% passionate about the service or product! 

They understand how extremly valuable and needed it is to the rest of the world and they make it their business then turn around and take the profits and use it to enjoy their passions with others.....

Take a look at the link and tell me if the following product is Valuable or Not!




Ok so now you have seen the Product how many people do you know use it already? 


How many of these products do you purchase already?


Would you rather keep paying for products like this or invest and make a ROI from your one time investment?


Do you know what "ROI" means?


Return on Investment


If you could own a McDonalds would you?


How much do you think it cost to invest in a McDonalds Franchise? 


Do you have that amount in your bank account now?


That is what is holding you back Right?

WRONG!

Lack of Information is What Holds You Back!


If You could own a Franchise Today for under

$5000.00  

Would You Invest into it? 

This is what Todays Franchises Really Cost You today!



So now you have actually done your own research and thousands of people just like you and me already make a great income with this type of Franchise so you have no more excuse to hide behind! 

Have a Great Day and See You tomorrow! 

:D

Always Keep Moving Forward!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 4, 2014 at 7:00 AM Comments comments (0)

Never let the past hold you back! 

Everyday you wake up you leave behind a new past...


Knowing this why not create the best past ever by doing great things today with your life! 


You are a creator and you are in control.


Things always work out for you and you are a great person and YOU got what it takes.


You are free and able to do as you please, your mind is strong and your body is just as strong...

Now look back on your past tomorrow and see how great it really is NOW ! 


You Got What it TAKES!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 3, 2014 at 7:05 AM Comments comments (0)

You are an Original Being....

You know that the UniVerse Will give you what you ask for...

You have amazing friends and you are PROUD of yourself everyday....

YOU GOT WHAT IT TAKES....

You are a Winner and You are AWESOME! 

You are Perfect Just the way you are!

You are Love and You Forgive Yourself...

You are everything and you are Infinity and you let the past be the past.


Love Flows through you and all you DO!


You are Free and You are a Winner.

Everything you wants wants you, Everything You wants Wants You, Everything You want wants You! 

You are a good Luck Generator you create your OWN luck.

You see what you want and you go for it because you trust the UniVerse always gives you what you want....


YOU LOVE YOURSELF and ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE LOVED.

Your energy is real and you have 100% SelfRespect for others because you are Confident.....


YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY DOUBT!

YOU GOT WHAT IT TAKES and YOU ARE UNLIMITED IN EVERYTHING!


You Are So Amazing!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on March 2, 2014 at 8:30 AM Comments comments (0)

You are everything! 

There is nothing you can't do and the world is yours.....

You have 100% selfconfidence and you are in control of your destiny, life is so amazing and all you have to do is understand you are in control of all of your thoughts and emotions and you have what it takes..

You are a Winner!

You create your life so have fun creating it and living it by creating the best version of you NOW!


YOU ARE AWESOME! 

You have what it takes, you are amazing and everything you do in life is so amazing because you are someone who has what it takes and you always get started right away.....


You treat others with RESPECTbecause you respect yourself first and it is all because youLOVE YOURSELF...

Your passion for life and your love for others gets better each and everyday because you are thankful for everything in life.....


You are open to receieve unlimited abundance and you are a CHAMPION.....


Your Mind is always calm and you sleep calm everynight  because you know the UniVerse will give you all you ask for.



Your Mind and Your Thoughts are the Power That Creates The Greatness You have within YOU! 


What you want Wants YOU! 



Why Skin Care?

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 26, 2014 at 7:10 AM Comments comments (0)

                                     


Taking care of yourself means more then just a few areas of your life, from head to toe and inside out is what it means.....

Far too many people over look the most important aspect of the human body and as you can see from the video above you really need to take care of your skin.

Your skin has this amazing way of protecting itself when you use the right products you will get the best results, in todays times there is seldom anything on the market  truly claim to be 100% all natural but you can get pretty close when you use products that come from the best and most resources in the world! 

The natural minerals of the dead sea have been around since the begining of time and if you wish to travel to the dead sea and bath in this amazing place then I highly recommend it, but if you can't for whatever reason then I suggest you do the next best thing and order your products today and start using them asap.

I love them and use them everyday! 


                                              


                                         


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The American Dream

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 20, 2014 at 11:15 AM Comments comments (0)

Are you living the American Dream?

This thought has been on my mind a lot lately and so I just thought I would ask the question!

ARE YOU?

If you are what does it mean to you and if you are not how come?

Please share your comments below! 


People Places & Things

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 19, 2014 at 11:05 AM Comments comments (0)

As time goes on you will learn there is no reason to fear people places and things! 

A lot of our issues in life comes from all three of these areas simply because you have other people who think they are smarter then everyone else and so they try to make others feel bad about themselves. 

I recall reading all of these long winded books that just had a lot of useless jargon in it with words that where hard to understand and so I lost interest real quick. Come to find out our brains really don't like to try and process too much information at once and it is like listening to a long winded presentation, after ten minutes our brains tend to check out.

Think about it for a moment the last time you sat in a meeting how much time passed by before you looked at your watch? I bet it was around ten minutes! 

So keep that in mind the next time you think it is just you! 

Because it is not and the majortiy of the room is thinking the same thing, the only one who fails to realize this is the person giving the long winded speech...

Don't fear this stuff because all you are going to do is get upset at yourself! 



Acceptance

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 18, 2014 at 11:50 PM Comments comments (0)



GET BACK UP AND FIGHT!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 13, 2014 at 9:50 AM Comments comments (0)

My Old Story was about a time when things were not that great for me and the rest of the world! 

Many of you recall the 2008 recession that cripled the world and changed the way we view how life actually operates...

There are so many people who lost everything they had because of some bad mortgage loans by greedy bankers at the time, and you can't just blame the bankers and the mortgage industry because we were all greedy! 

That was then this is now! What you do with what you have right now is all that matters, so pick yourself up and shake it off and get back in the ring is what I say.

Today I offically launced back into the Uni Verse Stand With Steve Enterpise which will be up and fully operational in the following months! 

I love business to much to quit ~ steve dorsey


I  am happy to say with all the new information and great training I have had from the Lifeclass experience I know this business will thrive even better then my first one did! 

There is a reason for everything that happens in this world and all it takes is a quick mental shift to get your life back on track! 

4 Steps to Living Fearlessly

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 11, 2014 at 7:45 AM Comments comments (0)

4 Steps to living Fearlessly


Step 1. Just Do it


Step 2. Keep Doing it


Step 3. Never Quit Doing it


Step 4. Enjoy Doing it



As a kid we have very few fears until we learn them from others around us, we pick up on what they are doing and we mimic our lives with theirs.


The one thing I hate hearing is when "Black Folks" say “Black People Don’t Do That”!


As if they speak for the rest of us! Black, White, Mexican, Asian, Muslim, Christian or whatever you identify with just make sure you are living your life based on your morals and beliefs that align with Todays times and not Yesterdays lies….


I respect and honor my ancestors for they are the ones who taught me to evolve with the times and I know this because it is how we come to survive for all of these years if not then we would all still be walking and living in caves….


I bet you thought is was going to be a lot harder didn’t you?


Although I will soon be 50 years old and I have two Granddaughters that pretty much qualifies me to share my insights with you. What I mean is my generation thinks and acts a certain way simply because our parents and grand parents were raised when times were really tough and they lived in what we call the "Great Depression" Era Mentality! 


They lived with certain beliefs simply because that was the time frame and era they evolved into just like you are in today.


All parents and grand parents wants their kids to grow up and have a better life and get a good education and in order to fullfill there wish we owe it to them to evolve with the times and honor and respect the old ways but not have to live by them in them...



Would love to see your feed back on this Process so leave your comments below! 

RELATIONSHIPS and BALANCE

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 4, 2014 at 9:00 AM Comments comments (0)

Relationships can be some of the toughest areas to actually have balance in and there is a good

reason for it too!



It involves other people….



The only one you can control is yourself!


Other people will come and go as they please and do as they please, so how can you expect tohave this area in balance if they won’t do what you want them to do?

Now people are allowed to do as they please just like you are, I get the feeling there are so many problems in this area is because we want others to do as we want them to do. Before we met someone they had their own lives and we know this because that is how we met them, they were doing what they wanted to do and somehow our paths crossed.

After we hang out with them for awhile we basically are on our best behavior and then if this relationship becomes more that is when it all starts getting out of balance because now emotions have come into play.

If you are not in harmony and balance already then how will your relationship be in harmony andin balance?

Personal development means just that, it is personal thing! 

What you bring to the table is what you get, you can’t expect others to act a certain way because you do.

When I first got sober I did a lot of changing and the people in my life had no reason to change after all it was me who had the drinking problem right?

Well I also knew these people because I met them when I was drinking and so I am pretty sure my judgement of character was not the best at that time. 

What about my family right? 

Well my family is family when it comes to my actual bloodline relatives, you would think that they would accept me and love me no matter what right?

Not always you see your family can be out of balance themselves and have just as many issues in life as you if not more. After all that is most likely how you got your issues anyways, they played a huge role in shaping your perception of life in other words your “preprogramming”in life. 

Take for instance lets just say you never heard of this type of programming before and so you had no clue as to why you do what you did. Now that you have been introduced to it there is no excuse  not to look further into this area, because in all reality it is your responsibility now to do your own research and gain further understanding of how certain things have played a role in the way you act and think today. 

I remember when I was first introduced to this theory, it caught my attention and I dove right in! I learned all I could and I still learn what I can on this subject.

After I got back from a Tony Robbins Seminar I was pumped up and excited to share all that I had just learned from a 4 day intensive seminar (UPW or Unleash The Power Within) I was a personal guest of Tony’s and so I sat right up front with Gayle King Oprah's Best friend.

I will never forget that first day, i had so much excitement going on and I had just had this huge breakthrough on live Tv with Oprah Winfrey and Iyanla Vanzant! People all over the world were writing in on social media after Iyanla said I want you all to Stand With Steve! 

It went viral on Social Media sites Twitter and Facebook I was told it was trending on Twitter like crazy…Thousands of people from all over the world stood up and started posting “I am Standing With Steve”! 

As I was walking into the event I made a promise to myself that no matter what they ask me to do I was going to do it!

I had people coming up to me with excitement in their eyes saying OMG Your Stand With Steve!

They were taking pictures with me and just continued to share their love and support!

Tony’s people had me sitting up close to the stage and I was just taking in all the energy that Tony’s events bring in already and I got this tap on my shoulder and when I turned around this lady said Steve! Hi I am Gail!  

I smiled and said hello and failed to realize who Gail was at first…Then it hit me! O snap this is Oprahs Best Friend!

She gave me a Huge Hug and we chatted for a little bit and then the event took place what a rush it was! I learned so much over the course of those four days and I had so much going on that this is just the tip of the ice berg. 

When I got home I was sharing what I learned with my son who was about to go into the Air Force.

 I told him that he needs to reprogram himself now that is an adult…

He looked at me and said there was nothing wrong with him and that just because I did this seminar I think I know it all…I smiled at him and proceeded to explain to him what I meant!

So I said I know your programming sucks in many ways because “I PROGRAMMED YOU” ! LOL

I gave him some other examples of how he was programmed like all the rest of us and the kicker was when I told him that when he goes to BootCamp that the military was going to break himdown and reprogram him to be a soldier!

After that I knew his life would never be the same, as a father what I wanted to do was make sure that after he served his country that he still had civilian programming of his own! 

BALANCE in other wards…

My point is each person is responsible for bringing balance into our relationships and you do this by having the understanding that you must take responsibility for your own actions and accept other people for theirs! 

If you choose to be in a relationship with someone it is your fault from the get go because you knew what they were like when you met them if you really got to know them first.

Too many people get in relationships thinking they can change someone and the truth is you can’t change someone who doesn’t want to be changed all you can do is Love them and accept them for who they are. 

Doing this will be good for you, if they are not the type of person you want not be around from the start don’t expect to think you can mold them into the person you want them to be and expect to be happy at the same time!

Balance "You" and everything else will be in balance around you because in the long run you will

         have made better decisions from the start!


As always please share you comments below on this topic. We lo ve to hear how you keep your relationships in balance...

LIFE BALANCE!

Posted by Steve Dorsey on February 3, 2014 at 12:40 PM Comments comments (0)

Today I just want to share something I discovered about me and the way I see life today!

I have been trying to be something I am not for the last ten years because that is what all the experts suggested I do and when I say experts I mean all the information in the world that involves personal development and success.

I have read a lot of bookks and I have listen to a lot of tapes and been to a lot of seminars over the years and the one thing they could not help me find was me!

How can I be me when I am pretending to be someone else as they suggest? If that is not an oxymoron I don’t know what is, but yet everyone has been buying it including myself. Now maybe this technique does work for others but for me it has not worked at all and I would say yet but I am not going to keep doing the same thing over and over expecting different results! I have tried long enough and it just does not work for me like that!

 

Only I know what feels comfortable inside of me and I am the only one who can do what I need to do for me.

 

I am not the smartest or the most educated person in the world but I am the only me in the world and that is good enough for me. I have come to learn so much by all of this information and I have no doubt my research and insights can help others be the best person they can be simply by allowing themselves to be themselves.

 

We are taught to be a certain way from the moment we were born when in reality we just needed to be taught how to survive and how to process information so we can actually have a great life and see and do as much of it as we can.

 

I have a really good understanding of right and wrong today so I don’t need to worry about that anymore so you can say that part of my life is in BALANCE!

 

I have a God of my understanding that continues to teach me right from wrong so I have that part of my life in BALANCE!

 

I have a functioning brain that has the ability to guide me and keep me safe so that part of my life is in BALANCE!

 

The one area that is not in balance right now is my finances and so I must take control of that area and get in back in balance.

 

I can tell when my life is out of balance because of the way I feel and the way I think!

 

It is a inside job and you are the one that is in charge of it all, only you can make the necessary decisions and take the necessary actions to bring balance in all areas of your life. You do this by accumulating and processing all the information that you gather and taking action on implementing it and for a person like me I don’t need to pretend to be someone else because I am fine being me.

 

I have everything I need within me to be the best I can be, I am not some guru trying to pretend to be some rich and famous guru with all the answers! I have done some amazing things in life and I will continue doing some amazing things in life because I love to do amazing things in life!

 

I want to help others bring balance in their lives by helping them understand they already have it and all they have to do is sort it out and start living it day by day and making the necessary adjustments along the way.

 

Of course we all want to improve our lives and be educated in as many areas as we can be so that is a given, not everyone is perfect and not everyone is right!

 

No matter what you do in life you will come across people who are out of balance and you will know this by their actions!

 

They are hateful rude and don’t want others to have happy and balanced lives so they make up rumors and tell lies for the sake of their insecurities and I hope you are not of of these people but if you are I just want you to know you don’t have to be unless you want to be!

 

If you are one of these people you can lie to everyone and say you have it all together and I will be the first to admit you can fool me and everyone else but the one person you can’t fool is that person who lays their head down at night on your pillow and tries to go to sleep because no matter what your conscious will eat at you day in and day out keeping you out of BALANCE!

 

If you think I am lying just take a look at how you really feel right now!

 

Do you feel more love or hate for the world you live in because if you feel full of hatred then it is safe to say you are way out of BALANCE!

 

If you would like to learn more about this subject and how to bring balance in all areas of your life I would be glad to share more of my insights with you so please join our members section and become an active participant by asking all the necessary questions you need to so as you can bring the balance you want in your life too!

 

If you have tips and suggestions on how you have great balance in your life already please share that with everyone as well!

 

Thanks for reading what I have to share and I look forward to hanging out more with you guys!

 

Steve Dorsey

LIFE BALANCE MEMBERS SECTION


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